Tuesday, December 20, 2005

TakEr And GiVeR


Some people say that, among people types, we cud categorize people into two types, Taker and Giver.
Based on its literal meaning, taker is someone that who always take anything for his/her own benefit.Parasite (is this the right spelling :P) Giver is someone who always nice and kind to others. Taker might be villains in movies and giver is the hero :P. Yet, it cud be wrong. Maybe that's not that clear.I mean, people is not always be bad or good at all times. But, well...most of the time i meet that kind of people. Either he/she really is a good or bad :P
Anyway, speaking of examples...Taker cud be someone that want to be close to us whenever she/he (only) need us. Someone who doesnt really care to others' happiness or misery.A super dupper egoist. A person who always feel like he/she the only total 'victim' so that he/she needs others' affection and help.A person who feels that he/she the most pathetic person on earth so she/he have a right to do somthing evil.and we sud compromise with everything they do. Daaagh... wots the difference between them and terorists?
Giver might be someone like my mom..Hmm...I mean a person who wud do anything to others, a person who does good things heart and soul and not expecting anything in return. A person who repay evil with kindness. A real good person. That's explain evertything ryte?
To sum up, We hardly give our judgement to others,leave alone ourselves hehhehe..I actually cudnt put myself in one of category thoroughly. I mean, sometimes i do bad things and sometimes i do good things to others. My Self defense is :I do bad things just becouse i didnt know wot's the best thing to do to them. So, in turn, they think that im the villain..the taker type.
I once joined somthing like self help training with another 16 friends by the way...At the end of the training we sud vote to peers that they are the taker or the giver. I got 8 votes for taker and 8 votes for giver. Meaning that im in balace wekekeke....

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